Mediumship works on a love vibration and should the medium come to you with a message, it is necessary to have an open mind and not expect the person who you want a message from to come forward first. If you have never received a message from the world of spirit then it is likely to be a life changing experience. Often spirit will bring forward a friend or a distant relative first (You may not have known all your family members but don’t forget they know you), if the medium were to bring forward your love ones first, it may be too emotional for you to carry on with your message. Be open minded and take the blinkers off. Answer the medium with a Yes or a No, don’t provide the medium with information, as that could be the next piece of evidence to leave their lips. The mediums work is to prove that life is eternal, so open you hearts and send your love to your friends and family in the spirit world, as it is they that have come forward to communicate with you. The medium is just the instrument used by spirit to convey the message and give proof of survival. Just sit back and enjoy the experience as there is nothing to fear.